鈥淧lease treat this as you would any illness,鈥� said a from Hendry County School District in Florida. 

The district鈥檚 rules specify that staff and students experiencing coronavirus symptoms should stay home, while those who are asymptomatic and fever-free for 24 hours may come to school with or without a face covering.

Across the country, over 95% of the 500 largest school systems had no mask requirement as of Aug. 22, according to an from Burbio, a data service that tracks school policy. Several, however, do still to wear face coverings for three to five days when they return to campus after finishing a five-day quarantine.

Those policies come after the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in mid-August eased their K-12 COVID guidelines. Rather than recommending anyone exposed to the virus self-isolate, the CDC now calls for only individuals who test positive or experience symptoms to stay home, effectively doing away with the test-to-stay programs many schools used during the previous academic year. The guidelines still recommend universal masking where COVID levels are high, as they are in several regions of the country, including New York City.

Regardless, the nation鈥檚 largest district will return to school with face coverings optional after lifting its mandate last March. Los Angeles, the second largest school system, will do the same. New York City will also end its requirement that students and staff undergo for the virus. 

Breaking the trend, and are enforcing universal masking as students return students to classrooms. Philadelphia鈥檚 rule, however, will lift after the first 10 days of school.

Benjamin Linas, a professor of medicine at Boston University, advises schools not to put an outright ban on mask requirements, because the policies can be a helpful temporary tool for staving off outbreaks and preventing missed learning.

鈥淪ometimes schools have to close because they have so much COVID that kids aren’t coming [or] there鈥檚 not enough staff,鈥� he told 社区黑料. 鈥淲hen we’re talking about school mitigation and school masking, we’re talking about learning.鈥�

Indeed, an Albuquerque, New Mexico, charter school on Aug. 16 for a week when over 3% of students and staff tested positive for the virus. And Mannsville Schools, a tiny 95-student Oklahoma district, announced a week-long closure starting Aug. 14.

鈥淒ue to an increasingly high number of positive covid tests for both students and staff, we are forced to close for this week to allow time for everyone to get better and not continue to spread the virus,鈥� Mannsville Superintendent Brandi Price-Kelty. 鈥淲e will make up these days with virtual learning days after Labor Day.鈥�

Other areas have set a higher threshold at which school COVID positivity levels trigger policy changes: 10% in Kansas City means until levels drop, according to the district, and 20% in South Carolina ushers a brief pivot to remote learning, according to the .

鈥淭here might be a situation in which you put on masks for 10 days in order to break an in-class cluster and get back to school,鈥� said Linas. 鈥淚 think people could have more in-person learning and more educational opportunities if we acknowledge sometimes you have to put on a mask in response to an outbreak situation in your own building.鈥�

Thanks to vaccines, COVID hospitalizations and death rates are much lower than they were at the height of the pandemic. But because case rates continue to follow patterns of surges and troughs, infections will still be an issue classrooms must deal with for the foreseeable future, he said. 

鈥淭his disease is not yet a common cold, it still does major damage鈥� there鈥檚 still a lot of morbidity. [Masking in classrooms when cases spike] is the least invasive policy one could have other than just doing nothing. And I think it would be foolish to do nothing at this point.鈥�

Naturally, after 18 months of hearing many of these same people demonstrate their commitment to catching and spreading the virus 鈥� gallivanting off to holiday family reunions, trips abroad, concerts, etc. 鈥� I wasn鈥檛 convinced. But, in Washington, D.C., where I live, if you would rather not send your too-young-to-be-vaccinated kids to in-person school this fall, the city hasn鈥檛 just blocked your access to a virtual schooling option 鈥� it鈥檚 started sending . 

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So we acquiesced, gritted our teeth, pretended like we felt safe and went to work selling in-person school. We told our two elementary schoolers that we were excited, met up with some of their friends for distanced-outdoor play dates, made a big show of buying school supplies 鈥� and then sent them back to campus. 鈥淵辞耻鈥檙别 going to have so much fun!鈥� we cheered. 

And they did! But only for a moment, because, something doesn鈥檛 become true just because we collectively wish it were so. amid the Delta variant surge this fall always hinged on the accuracy of a series of assumptions about the probabilities of kids catching the virus, positive cases turning into serious long-term illnesses, and/or hospitals running out of room for new patients. 

Early returns from school reopening 鈥� a , 鈥� suggest that, perhaps, forcing most kids back to school this fall wasn鈥檛 the easy slam dunk that advocates promised. Indeed, the situation in our house is a sad reminder that when y辞耻鈥檙别 forced to live with the assumptions baked into someone else鈥檚 fantasy world, you can still get stuck with real-world consequences. 

On the fourth day of school, a COVID-positive classmate exposed one of our kids to the virus. The school learned about the classmate鈥檚 positive test on the sixth day of school, and the class was sent home. . They worsened for a few days, then plateaued for weeks, coughing and coughing until we got scared enough to go to our doctor, only to learn that there were amid the school reopening case surge. The nearby children鈥檚 hospital was also overwhelmed, so we searched around until we found an urgent care clinic. 

鈥淟ungs sound OK,鈥� the harried doctor told us. 鈥淪he鈥檚 just gonna have to wait this out.鈥� 

But, by then, we had already been waiting for what seemed like an eternity. The helpless anxiety of listening to your kid cough themselves awake at night is one of the darkest flavors of parental desperation. It doesn鈥檛 improve after weeks of repetition. And it reaches particularly deep now, marinated in the exhaustion of a year and a half of juggling full-time work and child care . 

Worst of all, it confirmed our skepticism. We had been forced to run risks we didn鈥檛 want by people we didn鈥檛 trust, and wound up proven bitterly right. 

Finally, nearly a month after exposure, our kid started feeling better. The cough eased up. So we (reluctantly) prepared to send them back to school 鈥� but it was much harder to sell this time. They were scared. 

How do you gaslight a child who鈥檚 been sick for most of the first month of school because their community and its leaders put them at risk? How do you tell them that, nah, that wasn鈥檛 so bad, the pandemic is totally under control?

Just talk your kid down, folks said 鈥� they鈥檙e only apprehensive because you are.

It felt like the perfect encapsulation of the kind of selfish motivated reasoning that has made it so hard for the country to successfully confront the pandemic. When humans interpret the world, when we try to make sense of the situations before us, we鈥檙e always in danger of misunderstanding them in self-serving ways. This isn鈥檛 such a big deal when it鈥檚 an individual matter 鈥� convince yourself that your daily sodas with breakfast have nothing to do with your pants growing tighter if you must. The consequences of willing comforting beliefs for yourself instead of facing those facts will largely fall on you alone. 

But since spring 2020, the pandemic keeps hammering home the same frustrating lesson: when groups of people are unwilling to deal with challenging facts, the rest of us suffer. Take the most obvious all-time example: sure, the climate appears to be shifting, and yes, have been screaming for decades that our own behavior is putting us at risk 鈥� but wouldn鈥檛 it be more convenient to find a different explanation that doesn鈥檛 require us to change our lifestyles at all? Maybe it鈥檚 not actually caused by our frequent flying or our meat-heavy diet or our automobiles or our air conditioners. That feels easier to believe, which is almost the same as being better to believe, which, you know, the more you ruminate on it, starts to feel simply true and right. 

The key to reasoning this way 鈥� interpreting the facts so that they almost always confirm what you鈥檇 rather do anyhow 鈥� is carefully  framing the terms of debate up front. If you think about confronting climate change primarily (or even solely) in terms of how it might impact your ability to fly cheaply to Caribbean beaches every year, then sure, it鈥檚 obvious that humans should change nothing about our fossil fuel usage and anyone who thinks otherwise is an ecoterrorist. But if you expand your framing to consider how the worsening storms linked to accelerating climate change could affect the , and of your preferred Caribbean vacation paradises, the chain of reasoning comes out somewhat differently. 

The pandemic era has been drenched in this kind of thinking. Folks have been constructing more convenient realities built around self-serving assumptions about what is safe. They鈥檝e isolated potential risks out of their reasoning and focused on other priorities so that they can wind up feeling good and responsible about the choices they鈥檝e made. Don鈥檛 like needles? Dig around a little and you can find some comforting conspiracy theory to excuse you from having to get vaccinated. Embarrassed that you missed a week of work with COVID after attending that mask-free wedding two time zones away? Just spend 15鈥�20 minutes on a couple of the right-right wing websites and you can reassure yourself that no, you totally did enough, the masks wouldn鈥檛 have helped. 

It鈥檚 the same reasoning for school reopening. For instance, it is absolutely true that 鈥� for their social development, their emotional health, and their academic progress 鈥� in-person schooling works better, for almost every kid at almost every time, than virtual learning. But that doesn鈥檛 mean that the health dangers involved with reopening in-person schools simply evaporate. And it鈥檚 certainly no excuse for undermining efforts to lower those risks by, for example, refusing to get vaccinated or preventing schools from requiring masks on campus or forcing cautious families to send their kids back before they are eligible for the shots. 

Sure, 鈥� but that appears to be driven by schools, districts, and deciding to set family notification and quarantine rules for students. In essence, schools aren鈥檛 closing as much as before 鈥� not because in-school cases and transmission aren鈥檛 happening, but because we鈥檝e changed our levels of precaution. Indeed, that by easing its standards, Michigan stands to define one-quarter of its school COVID outbreaks out of existence. That is, they鈥檒l still happen, but we鈥檙e just not calling all of them outbreaks anymore. It鈥檚 the same with in-school transmission. While it鈥檚 common to read and convenient to believe that 鈥渋n-school transmission is rare,鈥� it鈥檚 also hard to be sure of this, since U.S. schools have to keep up with throughout the pandemic. 

Meanwhile, know that in the two months between schools reopening in the South in August and now (early October), there have been . That, which is assuredly an undercount, given the limited state of U..S COVID testing and reporting, is nearly one-third of the total pediatric COVID cases since March 2020 鈥� in just two months. Convince yourself that that鈥檚 just a coincidence, that it鈥檚 somehow totally unrelated to nationwide school reopening if you must, but please look yourself in the mirror while you do it. 

Know that sending your child means you are accepting an of facing a month 鈥� 鈥� of living with a nightly jaw clench, as your child just doesn鈥檛 seem to be getting better. Know that some children do, in fact, . Know that the risks for everyone will be dramatically lower for all kids once they鈥檙e vaccinated 鈥� a possibility that appears to be just weeks away.  

And, most of all, know that shrugging and framing these possibilities out of the picture won鈥檛 make them actually go away. But hey, maybe you鈥檒l get lucky, and they鈥檒l just happen to someone else. Like my kid.